Meeting the Calintaan Branch

Sunday, October 17, 2004

Church here is a bit different from back in the city. We have church at 9:00 in the morning in a little house that we’re renting. We play the piano on a little electric keyboard. The branch president’s name is President Isla. He’s a different person. He’s actually an Illocano and so his Tagalog is a bit hard to understand. He’s a good leaders but he needs to learn how to run things a bit better. For example, he has trouble knowing how to assign talks. He doesn’t give a topic and doesn’t really give much warning to them. I was the concluding speaker today and I just found out yesterday when we went by President’s It was kind of intimidating because I had to be ready to use up whatever time was left after the others were done. The Tardio sisters were the two first speakers and they left me with almost half an hour to speak. I talked about Lehi’s dream and how we can strengthen our families, walking in the straight and narrow path, through family prayer and family scripture study. It was really hard. My Tagalog skills aren’t good and I’m so used to using “taglish” that it just slips out sometimes. I have to admit that I was a bit upset with Elder Cox earlier. We had a family in front of us who had read and kept the commitments from the first discussion and all we did was read with them! I was all ready to teach a second outline and help them to keep progressing. I need to remember to do that in my later time when I’ll be a senior companion. People need to hear new things after they’ve had a discussion.

Introducing “Preach My Gospel”

Friday, October 15, 2004

Today was another good day. This morning for my studying I worked on the new “Preach my Gospel” program. It really is a lot different from the old way and I’m not sure how to work some of the commitments in there. I have to keep on working on it.

Preach my Gospel

Preach my Gospel: We were really excited to get this new book. We spent extra time studying it and getting trained on how this would change our missionary work.

For service today we helped some people dry out their rice. They take the rice that still has the shells on it and they dump it all out on the road. Then they take a bamboo with a board on the end of it and they spread it all around. They literally have it all over the streets. Everywhere we go it’s on the street. They let it sit out from early morning until about 1:00 in the afternoon and then they bag it up again to take and sell. We thought that they mixed it constantly but it turns out that they only stir it every 1 hour. It was interesting. We also, today, went up a bit into the “mountains.” We have an investigator who lives up there but we didn’t get to teach him because he was just coming back from gapasing, (cutting rice) and was sort of tired. We did get to share a short message with the Andales family. We took Edward, one of our inactives, with us. I guess he got offended by a missionary and hasn’t come to church for a while. He’s really good at English and is really nice. I’m not yet sure why he doesn’t come to church.

Bagging rice off the road

Rice spread out on the road to dry.

 

“True Tagalog”

Thursday, October 14, 2004

Today was a good day I guess. We didn’t reach any lessons and we had no findings. We did get to spend a little bit of time with a sister in reading the Book of Mormon. She was just baptized and she’s already reading in Ether. She was a really nice lady. We also went to Bro Andales tonight. The Tardio sisters shared with him a message about following Christ. He’s really nice and if he starts again coming to church again we’ll just wait to get him baptized. The older of the Tardios is applying for a mission. When she goes she’ll be one of the first, if not the first, coming from our branch here. It’s great here. Everyone speaks true Tagalog and it is so beautiful! I feel like I’m killing a good thing when I try to teach in it. I really need to practice my diction so that people will understand me better. A bad thing happened though, when we came out here yesterday, I left all of my food at the house in San Jose and so I have no food and I have to eat Elder Cox’s food until we go back into San Jose to buy more. One of the problems that we have here in Calintaan is that every single male in the whole area is out cutting rice. We went tracting and we only saw three adult men! It’s really weird here and different from the city. Of course it’s amazingly beautiful but I still miss the good people of my last area.

Onto the Isand

Wednesday, October 13, 2004

Well, talk about a change of scenery! I’m here on Mindoro. I feel kind of like a foreigner here and I feel more and more inadequate at Tagalog. Elder Cox is my new companion. He’s from Wyoming and is really good at Tagalog. We got up, at the office elder’s apartment this morning at about 3:00 in the morning. Our flight left Manila at 5:45 and we flew on a two prop plane! It was really exciting.[1] We got into San Jose about 7:00 and got picked up by the Zone Leaders in the van. We went shopping right off and also did email. Shopping here is just a bit different than back at Greenhills. We just shop at a really little place. They still sell everything that I ate back at “home” so I’ll still be okay that way. My area is the absolute farthest from San Jose and so we’re really out in the forest and in the rice fields. It was so good tonight we talked to people that speak all Tagalog! It’s really a beautiful language that I’ve come to appreciate. I hope I’ll get a lot better here at my speaking. I’m excited, of course, but I’m in truth feeling a little bit displaced. This is so different than Metro Manila.

Ariving on Mindoro via Asian Spirit

We flew on the Asian Spirit airline out from Manila to San Jose, Occidental Mindoro. It was quite the experience!

[1] This “It was really exciting” business hardly does this plane ride justice. I tell people about this ride all the time because it was so different and so unnerving. When we were sitting on the runway in Manila, the flight attendant was doing her usual spiel about safety etc. At one point she said “In the event of emergency power loss . . . “ and all of the missionaries looked at each other. There were four of use and we were on either side of the aisle in a single row, two to a side. As we were exchanging worried glances, the plane experienced an emergency power loss right then and there! The propellers just stoped working, the A/C cut out and we just puttered to a stop! Talk about scary! We were just sure the whole flight that we were going to have another one of those losses while we were in the air and that we would all crash! We made it safely but it was an experience to remember.

Last day in San Juan and Greenhills

Monday, October 11, 2004

Well today was my last full day in San Juan district. I’m almost all packed and ready to leave tomorrow. I’m not sure if I’m happy and excited about transferring or if I’m sad really to leave these people. I’ve grown really close to the people here and I’ll really miss them a lot. I’m ready, on the other hand, to try something new and to get out of the city. Again though I’m really going to miss working with Elder Tipton. I’ve learned a lot from him and it’ll be sad to change again.

Me with Elder Tipton on the last day before transfers.

Me with Elder Tipton on the last day before transfers.

San Juan District (Tipton, Arnesen, Riparip, Antanante)

San Juan District (Tipton, Arnesen, Riparip, Antanante)

We had a good fourth discussion with R. today. He had a little concern about tea but he promptly said “tubig at juice na lang[1]!” He almost seems to be too good to be true. I really feel bad about leaving him when he’s doing so well.

[1] Tubig at juice na lang = Just water and juice from now on.

Conference and some good lessons

Sunday, October 10, 2004

We got to go again this morning to the Sta Cruz chapel to watch conference. It was really good as always. They seemed to mention the Philippines a lot but I’m not sure if that’s really right or if I was just listening for it. I love the conference. The spirit is always so strong and I always learn so much. Bro R. C. came with us again as well as Sis Judy. R. is a really cool guy! He’s so friendly and really gets along well with everybody. It’s like he’s already been raised in the church but just hasn’t been baptized yet. I really have high hopes for him if he follows through with his commitments and is baptized.

Tonight after conference we worked with Sis Tess, Sis “Shy” and Sis Emylyn, and others. We had an interesting first discussion. The brother seemed like he wanted the Book of Mormon but he wouldn’t let us set a time to come back and follow up with him. It was strange. He also was convinced for some reason that we were going to ask him to pay us for the Book of Mormon.

Tonight we also had a good talk with Bro A. about the law of Chastity. We’re still a little bit confused about what the problem is because we also talked with N. there and it didn’t even faze her. I know that he has a problem but we can’t figure out what it is. He said that he’d stop the problem and umiwas until his baptism.

Priesthood Session

Saturday, October 9, 2004

We got to watch the priesthood session of general conference this morning. It was really good. I didn’t realize how much I miss hearing from apostles and the Prophet on a regular basis. President Hinckley talked again about how the scourge of pornography is attacking the world. It was very sobering to think about how bad this world is and how different it is to live a righteous life. As missionaries, we’re really separated from all the evil that’s in the world. We’re protected by all of our rules and other things to help us. The only way we see the problems in life is in the lives of our investigators.

The Law of Chastity

Friday, October 8, 2004

You could call today “law of chastity day” if you wanted to. We found out today that Bro A. has a problem with the law of chastity but what really is awful about it is that his problem is sister N, who is an endowed member of the church. Sister Tess told us earlier today and I could tell that she’d been thinking a lot about it lately. I’m glad she told us but I feel awful for Sis N.Those covenants are not lightly broken. She’ll probably end up being subject to a church court. I feel bad for her. Tonight we had another brother that’s been endowed living with a lady that we’re teaching. He really feels bad but she doesn’t get it. She wants to join the church for him but she just figures that all she needs to do is listen to all of the discussions but not really gain a testimony. Again I feel bad for brother for breaking such heavy covenants. Today overall has just been a really spiritually and emotionally draining day.

Self reliance

Thursday, October 7, 2004

We usually have follow-ups with the sisters on Thursday but today we just called them on the phone to do follow-ups. It was a lot more effective use of time. We left this morning at about 9:30 and went to an appointment down on 4th Ave Cubao. The family that we’re supposed to teach wasn’t there except for the sister who was leaving right then to take her son to school. We met some men who were selling shorts and I bought 2 pairs and Elder Tipton bought one. I was never really much of a shorts kind of person before but now long pants are just way too hot especially for working. They’re fairly nice shorts and hopefully they’ll last my mission.

Tonight, before our weekly dinner appointment with Sister Gonzales, we went by Nanay Jose Galzote. We presented to her our plan that she can escape from the control of the nuns. Bro Mendoza offered to them that they could help him and his jeep and he would pay them every day. They would actually end up getting more money, a lot more actually, than they’re now getting from the nuns. Hopefully when we take her kids to meet with Bro Mendoza, they’ll be excited to work for him and learn how to be self-reliant.

We also went and got our white shirts from the cleaner today. We gave them to the cleaner because they weren’t really clean and were getting more and more dirty every day. I really thought that they’d come out clean, but they are still dirty and the stains haven’t come out. I was fairly upset with them first because the first time that we went they weren’t back from wherever they were sent. Then they didn’t have change for P500. That’s like in the states $10. It’s crazy here.

The temple and branch training

Wednesday, October 6, 2004

I got to go to the temple again today. Of course it was awesome and I loved it. I could really just spend all day every day there and not get tired of it. After our session, at 7:00, I went over to the PBO for training for branch records. Only Elder Glassie and I were there from my batch. Elder Fairbanks actually was there too but he just sat in. I have to admit that I feel a little pride at being one of two from our batch to get trained. I know that’s really stupid because they’ll all get this chance sometime. I still have this “anti-Elder F.” complex that I feel threatened by him or something. Anyways, the training was really fast and I’m not sure how much it helped. Most of it was just like the old duh theorems in calculus in high school. After the training, I visited with some of the other Elders and then I went to see if my backpack was done. I guess the thy lost the order or something because it wasn’t there. I ordered another and told him that he needed to have it at the office by Tuesday so that I get it before transfers. Especially if I go out to an island I won’t be back for a while. We also went to Chilis today. It was fun because a lot of the elders were there and the food was good. It, the food, actually hit me like a brick because I haven’t eateh real heavy meat for a long time. Oh well, it tasted good.

We had a good follow up with Bro A. today about the fourth discussion. We answered a lot of questions and I think that he has a better understanding now. We also followed up with him on his coffee drinking. He says that he hasn’t drunk for about one week now. Wow were we excited for him. I think we’ll end up moving his baptismal day up to Oct 30. I really hope that he continues. I feel bad that I won’t get to see it. He really is a great person.